it sounds like love. don't give up.
i have no explination about the bed thing...and i DO understand your frustration. maybe he got up, got scared, and couldn't immediately figure out how to get down....
edgar was a crate mess, too. and pads?? he'd shred them and pee elsewhere. he's 3.5 now and most of that behaviour has stopped. he does still have accidents in the house and a bit of separation anxiety, causing messy messes....
some things i've learned....
even if they've just gone out 20 minutes ago, my 2 go out before i leave the house.
they don't get water after 8p because they may not make it through the night.
i let them out 10-20minutes after they drink or eat.
it will calm down as he gets older, especially when the testosterone calms down. 'they' say that can take a few weeks to a few months. for us it's been a few months and i can tell a bit of a difference.
have you considered trying to find base housing? they are generally pet friendly. (but you are unsure of your new station as of yet, right??) |