the staring thing is kinda 'creepy' huh? my fiance often comments that toby 'loves me sooooo much' because he will wake from a dead sleep if i get up to go somewhere else (and toby is on the other side of the room
).... and when i undress to get in shower/work clothes/pjs... whatever he will sit there and STARE at me. I am fortunate though, he used to be so glued to me that he would try and jump in the SHOWER with me (im sure he still probably would, but hes not allowed in the bathroom anymore
) . . you have a unique problem with the pee thing though, i have never heard of that one. Is he afraid of the toilet? maybe he doesnt like the sound of teh toilet flushing afterwords?