Thanks guys. I really do feel better knowing I'm not the only one
I think strain from our crazy schedule and all plays a HUGE part. it's HIS lap Zoe's in most of the time and I catch him more than once giving belly rubs to Guinness. He says it's because he feels Guinness is neglected on attention, I told him he's full of it. That dog runs this house with Zoe at a close second