first of all, i just want to thank everyone all the advice and input! it feels so nice to see all the responses! we (milu and i) feel so LOVED!!!
secondly, just to clarify, not that it's a big deal though, milu is a girl. (she asked me to clarify that LOL)
milu is 8 months old, she was spayed last month, and at the time she was 2.6 lbs. i think she may have gained some weight since then because all her dresses became too small for her. and i was supposed to throw her a little party if she reached 3lbs! (what can i do for her?)
3rd, she did finally eat yesterday (today at about 3am) she woke me up because she was crying, she wanted to get off the bed, i put her on the floor, and she went to her food dish and ate
13 kibbles.
13 kibbles is really not enough food though is it!?

but i did give her nutri-cal yesterday, and i did offer her raw medallions (even with parmasan cheeses sprinkled on it!) but she didn't want it! but i tried!