I totally understand where you are coming from and I don't think you're whiney at all...probably because I say the same thing all the time!

lol. I'm 21 and I went to college in a totally different state than most of my friends...and it's so hard to find girlfriends that are REALLY trustworthy...most are competely FAKE! lol.
And I'm totally guilty of spending all my time with my boyfriend...

Jen