Oh goodness! I know how easy to take on the problems of others, especially when it comes to an innocent baby, but it is NOT your responsibility to raise this child or take care of your friend. You are clearly being taken advantage of. I'm sure the doctor didn't mean anything harmful with his remark, but I'm guessing it only served to make you feel guilty like you should be doing more...(though I can't imagine what else you could be doing for her).
My guess is your friend will start talking to you again when she wants something from you, and you will only end up feeling worse.
I'm frustrated just hearing about the situation.
Is there someone (a counselor) YOU could talk to about this situation? I know there are several organizations specifically for friends and family of addicts. |