In the five months she has been there, her Mother has been to see her only four times, and her sister twice. It is 100 miles away. They didn't come when they had her little ceremony for 90 days clean.
She said she was never going to her mother's for an overnite visit, but suddenly changed her mind. She gets a whole weekend away in december. her mother had the nerve to ask me if I would pick her up on Friday, bring her on Sat am to the babyshower, and then she would take her back.
I agreed, only because I know she misses her family. When I told her the plans, she blew up and said the only reason why she asked her mom to get her for 2 nights is so she could spend one night with this guy friend.
He is the last person she was with--and she has trichomoniasis. 4 rounds of antiobiotics haven't cured it yet, but all she thinks about is this guy.
She hasn't purchased one thing for baby, and husband says we are not spending any more than what we would for a normal shower gift.
The whole thing breaks my heart. |