Bless your heart. It's hard not to take things personally when you have given so much of yourself to a person who is so selfish.
It's easy for me to say I'd be done with her, but I have never been in your shoes. You have already done so much for her, but it seems like she can't see that.
Would YOU be okay if you no longer had anything to do with her? Is that a realistic option?
I think the bottom line is you may end up sacrificing yourself for someone who will never say thank you and realize all that you have done for them. I know it must be exhausting dealing with it day in and day out, and it sounds like it's starting to take a toll on your other relationships.
At some point you have to do what is best for YOU. It seems to me you have done more for your friend than anyone else in her life. You are a true friend, but some point you are being self destructive in continuing this relationship. I think you might be the only person who knows when that time has come.
I'm not sure I helped much, but I think I would try my best to walk away and never look back. You have done all you can, including sacrificing yourself. |