Toby is the same. I was so used to my little girl being a snuggler, that when I first brought Toby home -- I figured he would be the same. NOT!!! The first day, he was laying on my bed sleeping, looking so cute -- and I just leaned over to pet him. He got up... stomped to the end of the bed and plopped down -- with the attitude of "just leave me alone!" I was so hurt. But I've just accepted that, and when he wants to snuggle, he will. And he does seem to be better about it as he gets older. Don't get me wrong... he is very affectionate -- and gives me lots of loves, hugs and kisses. But it's only on his terms -- when he wants to. I definitely take advantage of those times! |