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Originally Posted by Here2  Im a newbie but with all due respect - wow. But - you seem like a woman that knows her worth and will NOT tolerate this. Good for you!
He couldnt have done less - bless your heart. Remember this... what if you were to get REAL sick? I would talk to him and see WHY he reacted that way. This is deeper than just this week. Its deeper that bringing you meds or something to drink.
I too am a woman that knows her worth. Me and that fella would talk. He would tell me what I wanted to hear or he would walk! All of us married took vows concerning this very thing. Just as we vowed to stay true to each other. I would want to know if he took his vows seriously or just repeated what was said. 
I hope I havent offended you. I just see you are fire mad - and should be. I wanted you to know we hear you. Sometimes that can make us feel so much better. 
- Michael |
Oh honey dont worry, you didnt offend me at all...
...I like what you said,,,"He couldnt have done less"..thats soooo true,,
...And oh when I get better,(and im on my way there), WE ARE HAVING A TALK!!!!!!!! (he may not get a word in, but we will talk oh yes)....I think this has A LOT to do with his mother!!! ever since he got layed off she has been calling him everyday while im at work! (and she LOVES to stirr up trouble,,,,its a control thing)..and her favorite thing in the world it seems, is to put me down. and I have been blowing her off, so I think she just might figure that if she gets to him, then I will have to live the way she sees fit...(since im not listening to her),,,she is always going on about how I dont do enough for him, and I do way to much for myself,,I have recently picked up some hobbys. and she cant stand it...and it just so happends that my hobbys are getting on HIS NERVES NOW...I go to work, and come home, I dont go out with friends or spend hours on the phone,,,,what I do is surround myself with my dogs,,(unconditional love ya know) and I love to sew, as well as read or watch anything that has to do with the paranormal.....so all I hear from him and her is..."if you would concentrait on your husband as much as you do those dogs and that sewing machine,,,,and that ghost crap, you might be a good wife!"...I guess im supposed to live to serve,,,,but toooooo bad, the bad thing is its realy pointless to even try and talk to him...becasue he honestly dont see where he is doing ANYTHING WRONG...I have tried talking to him in the past..and it always comes back to me having MY priorties screwed up...anyting I do takes attention away from him...
.....all I can say is just waite buddy,,you are gonna create a monster you dont want following you in your sleep...lol