I certainly appreciate your opinions, and do agree with all of you that the dogs should not be here. I am not offended by your statements. However, my daughter and her husband live in Minneapolis. His mother lives in New Mexico. My ex lives in New York. So, my daughter and her husband fly to New York for Thanksgiving and fly to New Mexico for either Christmas or New Years (expensive). My daughter is working a second job (initially to pay for their wedding) because her husband is working on his masters and PhD. for the next eight years and working too. They have good friends who care for the dogs, but they will do it for either Christmas or New Years and Thanksgiving. They can't expect all the holidays. If I want to spend a holiday with my daughter, I need to put up with the dogs. They just can't afford boarding (also one of the dogs is a rescue and has major problems if in boarding) As I said, I agree with all of you, but this is not the ideal world. So, my question still stands, the anxiety meds or the antibiotic?
__________________ Sophie's Mom  :  |