Sorry you have to deal with him! Your example is just one more reason that I am not married nor ever want to be. Its been my experience that most men are whiners and the good ones(yes there are a few!!) are very hard to come by.
A decent man would not have left you alone while you were sick and would have at least fixed the heater for you. But obviously you love him as you have been together for 18 years. Kudos to you!! Maybe marriage counceling or talking things over with your pastor would help. Hope you get better soon!! |