I'll bump this for you. I don't claim to have any training skills.
Just have one question. Does the male soil his crate when he is alone in there after you remove the female? If not, I would crate them separately at the beginning rather than wait until the female squeals. Of course they know you are coming so I guess I wouldn't necessarily think that nothing had happened even though they are looking innocent. IMO, if she is on her back then there is definitely a dominance issue going on. You might possibly look into obedience training. I don't crate any of mine at night. We have all four with us, but then we also have a king size bed.



I hope you can come up with some solution. If you want to re-post, you might want to put it in the "training" section. Good luck. Joanne
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