thanks everyone. This is my first time fostering and Bobby has been my only pet in my adult life. Trixie is really sweet with me. It takes her awhile to warm up to the hubby. I dont think she cares for Bobby right now. She has snapped at him and she guards the food and toys. Hopefully once she gets more comfortable she will calm down. But I think that her forever home might need to have a female as the dominant care giver and no other pets. She also knows how to sit/stay and play fetch! And only 1 accident in the house since I got her. She really is a good baby