[Bonnie's Mom]

Originally Posted by phfgkl

I've been married 32 years, usually if I want something bad enough, hubby will let me get it, if we have the money for it. But, we never buy anything behind the others back, and I think that's why we've been married happily so long. Just like when he needed a new computer, even though I don't work, he asked if it was alright, and that's really the way it should be..Being sneaky really isn't the right thing to do. I have many times put my foot down as has he, and in the end, we realize it was the right thing to do. Be honest with your hubby, and then take his feelings in to consideration

Personally that just drives me crazy when I hear a wife say that their husband LETS them do something.