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Originally Posted by phfgkl  I've been married 32 years, usually if I want something bad enough, hubby will let me get it, if we have the money for it. But, we never buy anything behind the others back, and I think that's why we've been married happily so long. Just like when he needed a new computer, even though I don't work, he asked if it was alright, and that's really the way it should be..Being sneaky really isn't the right thing to do. I have many times put my foot down as has he, and in the end, we realize it was the right thing to do. Be honest with your hubby, and then take his feelings in to consideration |
Great advice, i agree that you should both be in agreement right now he is disregarding your feelings and it doesn't feel good, so you should not disregard his. Talk to him and explain to him how much you want the new furbutt and see where it goes.
