I don't mean this in a bad way but it sounds like you are hoping someone will tell you to just stop the custody arrangement. I have 4 dogs and my daughter's most of the time and they are fron 1 1/2 to 13 years old. They are never all on the same schedule and the youngest are a pain to the older ones many times but if you want them both you"ll just have to work things out. PS> My "baby" still gets up 3 times a night so if I need some rest one night I put her in an xpen in my family room with her pee pad so I can get some rest |