You are definately not rambling, I know just how he feels, as a week and a half ago we lost a very dear uncle to cancer and just hours before, 16hrs to be exact, his mom, my grandmother also past. This past friday we had a joint funeral for both of them. My uncle was just 60 and way to young to go thru this. His kids are really beside themselves and his widow is the most wonderfull woman in the world and she really doesn't deserve this either. So we have been doing a lot of grieving the past 2 weeks.
Desiree