First off I will not chill, because it happens to me every time I post a thread that mentions he is not fixed.
And Ichabob, thanks for understanding my position.
I have a VERY personal reason why I can't go through with it and if people can't understand that they really need to just not comment and make people feel worse than they already do. Every time I hear "get him neutered","if you loved him you'd get him fixed", etc, it brings me back to my past, and I have specific reasons why I can't go through with it.
SO PLEASE do NOT mention the neutering thing anymore to me. |