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Originally Posted by IluvLucy Thank you - that's what it's all been about. My husband died at 49 and I was so afraid that I'd die early, too, because of the weight I've been carrying for so long. I really ballooned after his death and I knew I had to do something drastic. |
I've always felt a bond with you because we both lost our husbands too soon

(and you've been wonderful ...Thank you)
It's amazing how differently we deal with grief...I went the other way and lost too much weight after my husband died...couldn't eat or sleep for months. My appetite is just now coming back and it sucks - I'm always hungry now.