Oh my what a horrible experience for both of you. Little Tatum must have been just terrified and I know you were.
I think I would have been able to be kind to the child like you were, but my heart would have been pounding!
I agree with other posters, why don't parents watch their own children when there are animals close by. That little girl should have know not to throw a dog up in the air. Her mother has done her a huge disservice by not teaching her properly because iI imagine there are many other things she is not taking the time to train her about. That is so sad.
I'm glad little Tatum is OK. Give her lots of snuggles from us.