Oh - and I thought everyone should know:
the jerk let me know by EMAIL that he filed for divorce - disconnected all numbers and then FLED the country and got his citizenship in Israel so he wasn't financially accountable for anything.
AFTER I SPENT THE LAST YEAR LIVING WITH AND CARING FOR HIS PARENTS!!! Then, the entire family, parents included, stopped returning calls, emails etc.
I would be honest if I did something to deserve it - but all I tried to do was love each and every one of them...
MEN!
I am only 25 though, so I am hoping my youth will help me bounce back quickly. Its just so hard when you are still completely in love with such a massive poop-head.