Thank you so much for sharing this information! I know it must have taken you quite a while to type all this up and include the links. (part 1 and part 2) I really appreciate your taking the time to be so detailed in your explanation.
I too will be printing out this post and researching all of the links you suggested.
It is so easy to let these little ones always have it their way - they are so cute in everything they that do- and they know it! I know Macie has some issues that need to be dealt with- fortunately she is not completely out of control yet, that is what I am hoping to prevent. I realized when I added Leo and Mia to our family that Macie was completely spoiled rotten and that I would have to (God forbid) start treating her more like a dog or I would really have my hands full if all my furbabies were going to act like her...
Thank you again for sharing this information!