I hope you'll give YT another chance too. I've been here more than 3 years now and only had one person be completely hideous to me. There is an ignore member option here I've used on a couple people and I have to say this really helps...

Other than that, I LOVE this site. We have Gift Exchanges, awesome halloween contests, the wonderful YT calendar and even better than all that is all the support you're given whenever anything upsetting happens to you or your dogs.