I know just what you are going through! I know that Hallie was abused b/c she came to me with broken bones and was taken from her owners. It took a long time for her to trust me and she is still very fearful of men and strangers. I would just lay on the floor and talk to her in a soft voice offer her treats and be very still, no sudden movement. I did this for a very long time and eventually she started to really approach me. Now she is all over me ALL of the time (and I love it).
It is very difficult to deal with emotionally but he will learn to trust you and your family, but it is a long process and takes a lot of patience. Please let me know if I can help you in any way. Kimberly~ |