I am so sorry that you are going through this.
Many marriages, mine included, change over time. What was once hot and passionate turns into comfort. Once it was lingerie and now it's flannel PJs (though I love the flannels).
I think that in all marriages, one or the other feel neglected at some point and I believe that in all marriages, people feel just as you are right now.
I feel that you need to have a heart to heart with him. Maybe he's feeling exactly as you do right now.
You have traveled far from your family and your family is your support system. You may feel alone (I've been in your shoes...I moved to be closer to DH's family and left mine behind).
Have the two of you considered counseling?
Hugs to you. |