I'm sorry for the situation that you are in. My kids don't help out either and it's frustrating. I have a heart cond. and can't work. My 2 furbabies are what keeps me going and they get me out by taking them out. If you place them seperatly, I'd be interested in the female. I've been looking for a female that was not too expensive, Because of having her spayed. My Baron is 9 months old and almost housebroken and is getting neutered in October. If you decide to seperate them let me know. I would love her very much. I loved when you said you bathe them in Pantene, so do I !! I take my babies everywhere with me even on vacation. They are part of the family too. Hoping you find loving homes for them... Blessings...

Baron's mom