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Originally Posted by grandmatoall  This is a great suggestion. I have done it in the past and it really works.
Not overnight, but it helps you realize there are good things in your life.
When it is hard to deal with people.. one of the things I have learned in life is ... you can not change other people.. you can just change how you let them affect you.
Try finding something that is good in each of these people. Everyone has something good in them. It is not always easy to do. Don't focus on their negativity.. try to focus on their good points.. It will make the days a little more bearable until you can find another place to work.
Good luck sweetie.. my thoughts and prayers are with you.. to be able to find a wonderful job you love to do.. with nice people. And to find some good in the people who are giving you problems at work. |
That's SO true - you can't change people. The thing is - people who are rude or demeaning usually don't care that they're doing it so you have to be the bigger person and ignore it though I know it's hard to do. Office interaction is pretty amusing I think - you see all sorts of sucking up then the REAL presonalities come out.... and you think wow....