Shari you know how much I love this girl. Her Aunt Kiki can be very quiet and meek too, she is not afraid to go places but is not bouncing off the walls with excitement either. We did a few puppy matches with Kiki and then did not show her again until she was an adult. She suprised us by showing beautifully. She does prefer the indoor shows though to the grass, but she wants to run and play in the grass...isn't that what outside is for anyways...lol.
I would not give up hope, I would work with her at home on the lead and if she likes it then let her ride along to a show when you take Romeo. So she can go and you can see how she feels going but not showing and go from there. If she is scared that is different and I do not think any dog should be forced to show.
Kiki likes going now, and knows that on the way home she gets ice cream...lol