I'm sorry that your hubby doesn't take an interest in the things that you enjoy. I assume it's not just your furbabies, is it? Of course Yorkies (or any dog for that matter) aren't things...didn't mean to imply that.
My husband loves Abby and Daisy as much as I do. He enjoys seeing me enjoy them. When I buy them new clothes, he just chuckles to himself because he knows how much I love dressing them up.
We took them to the riverfront the other night and I had them all dressed up in dresses and bows. Some guy asked him if Daisy was a girl...Umm, she had on a dress with a can-can under it and big bow in her hair...
Hubby said, Nope, Cross Dresser .....
He walked Daisy all over and after we had dinner at an outside cafe w/ the girls (Abby and Daisy) he picked Daisy up in his lap and held her. Both he and my son love our babies.
We also have an 85 lb Golden Retriever that we all love to pieces.
I so wish I had some sage advice to give you. If my hubby talked like that to me, it would really hurt my feelings. It sounds like to me the problems go deeper than your dogs. Maybe he'll come around eventually. I hope for your sake that he does.

I wish you the best of luck.
PS Enjoy the heck out of your babies and dress them up every chance you get! There's no reason for you not to enjoy them to the fullest!!