lol...This subject is soooo dear to my heart....I have Barney.....He is amazing in my eyes....Hubby sees him as a "dog"....

Barney is my baby....He kept me from losing it literally when my daughter and grandbaby moved out....Talk about empty nest syndrome.....Barney has clothes he wears.....Special collars w/ little charms on them...Bows for all the outfits....They are boyish outfits and bows.....He has a stroller for long trips and for uses like the vets ofc or flea markets.....
Barney has never been on our bed,,,Hubby wont allow it.....He can get on the guest bedroom bed and he can get on the living room furniture but not hubby's chair....And he can go in the office but is not allowed around his desk or on his chair....I finally gave up on him- hubby is the way he is.....He will buy Barney's food for him(quality)...He will pay for Barney's vet visits and meds(heartworm)...He lets Barney out in the afternoons to potty....He just does not care for Barney...He does this for me....So I am accepting that this will probably never change.
BTW Hubby thinks I am on Yt too much also....But he has been really relaxed about this recently