I totally know how you feel. I had a full abdomin hysterectomy in March. in like 3 weeks my hubby was like..ugh shouldnt you be better already? and He was less then thrilled when I got Riley because we already had 3 other dogs. but I had my heart set on a Yorki, so I got him anyway..lol...and I have heard many referr to their husbands as DH, I never knew exactly what that stood for, so I like to think that it stands for Dam Husband!..lol. I just tune mine out after awhile,when he starts complaining about stuff. (and they say women nag all the time
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