Sorry you had to hear that from your daughter. Sometimes people say mean things, things that they know you're sensitive to, to hurt you. If it were MY daughter, now that things are patched up I would sit down and tell her how much her comment hurt you, and that even though she apologized, you want to know why she was trying to deliberately hurt you. And that if she ever does that again, you'll take away any and every priveledge you've worked so hard to provide for her. Even though it's great she apologized and you guys patched things up, I think it's important for her to know and understand her boundaries. So she doesn't think she can just say anything hurtful and aplologizing for it makes it all better. |