[luvmyYorkieJack]

Aright. Upon heavy debating with myself I have decided to throw a wrentch in and really make the decision harder. I was in the place of the person being cheated on. I will tell you my story.

I had this friend (whom I no longer talk to). We hung out ALL the time. Well one night she had invited some guys from a college (an hour away) to come and hang out with us and by the way we were in high school yet. Well I didn't get a whole lot of sleep because there were so many people there.

Fast forwarding....... my boyfriend just suddenly broke up with me about a month after that night. I never knew why and no one would tell me. Come Monday when I went back to school, I had found out from some aquaintence that he had cheated on me with his best friend (the only girl I really ever trusted him with). Well I just found out about 3 months ago (which it has been about 6 years since the breakup), that this friend of mine told him that I had cheated on him that night (which I never did). But I stopped talking to her long before this was ever brought back up but had I still talked to her I would have given her a piece of my mind for lying.

Before that boyfriend, I was dating a different guy. I refused to believe that he was cheating on me because I really like him. But keep in mind that no one specifically told me he was cheating..... it was just a feeling I got. I think I dated him for something like 8 months and he broke up with me. I never found out why but then someone finally spilled the beans that he had been sleeping with some girl at least 2 years younger than me. I was so furious that no one had said anything me. Especially the people who I thought were suppose to be my friends. Thankfully I found the guy who was right for me and we are happily married now. But I remember thinking that it was more betrayal of my "friends" to not say anything than to let it continue to happen.