Infidelity is not something to be taken lightly.
Two things can possibly happen if you tell...
1) The marriage can break up and surprisingly, one or both will blame you
2) They can reconcile and you'd loose the friendship of both
Do you get involved or not...the decision is entirely up to you. You have to ask yourself...if your spouse/boyfriend was cheating on you, would you want to know?
How will your friend take it once she finds out it was you that spilled the beans? Will she tell her hubby that you have made it all up...since no one would want to think their spouse were cheating on them, the spouse may choose to believe the cheater.
I would not want to be in your shoes because you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. |