I know how you feel because I will soon have to face this. Tobey is now only home alone for a few hours at a time because although I work full time, my husband is in school and works in the evenings. So it's not been too bad.
However, bad news is that my husband is leaving me and moving out soon. Because of all that I quit Cosmetology school for awhile (which was 3 nights a week after work from 5-9pm) but my parents are urging me to go back.
I keep telling them that with Jon (my husband) not home, that means tobey would be alone everyday for like 9 hours and then 3 days of the week for like 14 hours! that's just too long, even though he is pee pad trained.
It makes me really SAD
but I also don't want to never finish school. It's hard balancing life and our babies sometimes, especially now that I am going to have to do it alone....