Sweetie, you heart was in the right place. It is not your fault this company messed it up for you. Who ever your Buddy is will understand. It doesn't matter if the color of an outfit is pink.. if your buddy has a sister.. she can wear it. If not.. they will know someone who can use it.
I am hoping TJ is your buddy. I understand and I would love just anything you send. Keep your chin up and a smile on your face.. you are a wonderful friend and I am glad to know you.
That being said.... more hints please .