I'm sorry I don't think anyone did any bashing on here!! Vee and Ladymom said what needed to be said and did it in the nicest way possible.
Would you just sit back and say nothing if it was her 12 year old daughter that she let get pregnant?? The ignorance has to stop and people have to start taking responsibility!! They can't keep coming on here asking for help after they do something stupid and expect all of us to be sweetness and light!! JMO of course, with sugar on top!!