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Originally Posted by Mayas Mommy  You discover the husband (or wife) of a very good friend is cheating. Not a maybe sort of finding out, but a definite knowing. Would you tell your friend?
Yes, I would tell her .....
If your mate was cheating on you would you want someone to tell you or would you rather they just keep quiet?
Yes, I would want to know .....
If your friend knew about your mate cheating on you and didn't tell you, would you be angry with the friend for not telling you?
Yes, I would be angry .....
May I ask why your asking this ???? |
Yes. You may ask.
It hasn't anything to do with me. A friend and I discussed this and she is one who would not want to be told. I am opposite. I am a realist and would expect that someone who genuinely cares for my well being (a good friend) would tell me. Not in a gossipy way, but simply because of their caring for me.
I guess I was sort of shocked when she said this because it is so far removed from how I would feel. Then I just got to wondering about it and so I thought I would ask you all.
Soooo...it was one of those 'just wondering' things. Thank you all for replying.
Sammi