I'd want to be told. I don't feel cheating is the biggest crime in a marriage....there's too many marriages full of abuse and violence -
but ya....I would say I'd want to know.....
if it were a good friend - meaning a really GOOD friend - I'd say something. That's what friends do for each other....even if it's something they don't want to hear -
On the other hand.... if I were friends with BOTH the husband and the wife - I'd maybe talk to the husband first privately and just say "if I know - then others will find out" and let it go from there. |