Hi Dena-
Don't know if this has been mentioned to you or not, but Brenda (Breny) has a chi that has a cleft lip and/or pallet (not sure), but she's raised her from birth and still has her. I'm sure she would be an AMAZING reference for you. Good thing this baby found you
I'm going to search for the thread of Breny's baby. I think her name is Tia.
BRB