I'm afraid I don't have any suggestions except to say that they really do calm down a lot as they get older, but that's not much help now.
I'm sure someone will have some wonderful ideas for you.
I just wanted to welcome you to YT!
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RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)