Girlfriend, listen closely to me. I stayed with the wrong man for 16 yrs off and on. From age 15 to 31. If only I could have those years back. He called me names and did his best to make me feel like I was worthless. The only way I left him was when he kicked me out. Do yourself a big favor and leave now. My life would be totally different if I hadn't stayed with him so long. I'm 37 and single with no kids. I married someone else briefly but it didn't work out and got back with him after. He's married now with a son, and I'm still dealing with the issue's I have from allowing myself to be treated that way and staying for so long. Sounds like you're on the right track. I support you. Take your babies and start fresh. Don't let the negativity hold you back. Lean on your family (and yorkietalk) for support. Good Luck, I hope the best for your future.
__________________ ~Paula~ proud mommy of
~Otis  (yorkie) & Oliver  (shih-poo) |