I am so sorry to hear that you are struggling. I agree with the above posters that it's definitely time to end things with the boyfriend. Verbal abusers don't get better unless they have a life-changing epiphany and are willing to seek help for their anger management, and chances are it will just get worse. You sound like a smart, hardworking person and I'd be willing to bet that he cuts you down and tries to hold you back because deep down, he's afraid that you'll leave him - he knows you are too good for him and it's his way of keeping you trapped. Life is too short to not surround yourself with positive people who will support your dreams ... there are other wonderful men out there.
I moved from Oregon to Nashville, TN on a whim right out of college and have loved it. The economy is booming here, and Nashville has been rated one of the top cities for young adults. (Wish I could remember where I read that ...). Job opportunities are plentiful, housing costs are relatively low, and there are several local colleges where you could finish your business studies. Nashville used to be pretty "honky-tonk", although it's undergone quite the transformation ... most people I meet have moved from somewhere else for the great opportunities Nashville offers - the nightlife is fun, there is plenty of culture to be found and people are really friendly.
As far as making a couple grand quick ... working as a server at a restaurant nights and weekends is a great idea.
I wish you the best of luck ... you deserve to be happy and with someone who loves and supports you unconditionally. |