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Originally Posted by 4doggiemama My dh NEVER tells me what to do. We discuss things. Things like that only get worse if you tie the knot. My dd has learned the hard way and has finally started connecting with young men who respect her wishes and decisions. Good luck in the future, my dear. Joanne |
Sounds as though you bf has some kinds of control issues. things in a relationship should be a give and take, and not one party should give or take more over the other. I also agree that a present with strings is not a present. If this is your birthday present, then it is yours...no strings, if's and's or but's about it. As far as naming, like someone also said, list out the names that both of you come up with and pick one that you both agree on. My hubby seems to come up with most of the names for our babies and things. Hot Rod, our boat and businesses.
No one person should dictate to another.