My cousin is a mother of three kids, 2 boys ages 5 and 4 and a daughter who just turned 2.
She is only 22 and not married but living with the father of her 3rd child.
She has been coming over to my house quite a lot and bringing the kids. These kids are so out of control it's not even funny!
When they come I have to lock my yorkies up in my room because i fear for their life! If I left them in the expen, the kids shake the pen, throw toys or just growl and bark at my babies! I tell them to stop it and leave my babies alone and the boys will look at me and tell me I'm not their boss and they can do what ever they want!
The mom will do one of these numbers... I'm going to count to 3 and if you don't stop it I'm going to whip you. But she never follows through with it. She yells and screams and smacks them and this is not helping at all, it's just making matters worse.
I'm at the point where I dread her coming over with them. She does not call, she just comes right over and comes right in and makes her self at home. Sometimes she even thinks I should feed her!
During the day I'm usually sewing and when she comes and barges in, I can't get a thing done. How can I sew when i have her kids touching all my stuff?
I'm not the kind of person who will say anything cause I don't want to start something or get any family all upset, so I just keep it to myself.
My kids are at the point where they go and hide if they see her pulling up in my driveway.
These kids are so disrespectful it's not even funny. They are smart mouths. and have no respect for someone else's things.
And to top it all off, my cousin is going to college to be a welfare worker!
Help me, I have no idea what to do!