I have been here a little while, and this is how i feel.
YT members are very passionent about the breed. They will have strong feelings about subject matter and have the right to express their concerns, and offer feedback. I believe too many people take feedback personally, where as it is only advice shared. People need to step back and look at it from a different perspective.
I am uncertain as to what "rude" posters mean. I see no cursing, or nasty remarks that are directly attacking anyone. Administration does step in and will close a thread when needed. Knowledge is power, and I believe newbies come on here sometimes thinking that they will always get people to agree and support them. That is not going to always happen on here.
Newbies become very offended quickly and then shoot off their mouths sometimes, making it worse. I have seen that happen many times. Many times, they are the ones to get angry because they do not like what others have to say. AND do not want anyone to disagree with them.
Don't take it personally and everything would be fine.