I have to say that I disagree with the general opinion here that YOU should call her and let her have it. The person YOU should be talking to is DH. It is HIS Mom.. HE should be standing behind you and if he isn't, then HE is the one I would go full barrels against. He should be the one that goes to her and tells her that he is behind you 100% and that he wants HER behind you 100% too. It is NOT FAIR to YOU to put you in a position to defend your child rearing methods and beliefs. If you go to her, there surely will be lasting hard feelings. Your DH needs to have a UNITED FRONT WITH YOU! Your MIL will not hold a grudge against her own son like she will with you. |