Take her out for coffee or something and say, hey I can't do this for free and I want some time to spend with my boys to do things this summer. Tell her you feel taken advantage of. Give her two weeks to make other arrangements. She should understand. Tell her how you feel.
Maybe you guys can compromise and you can watch her one day a week, maybe two every now and then but she'll need to call and make arrangements first.
Good luck. Dealing with family in these types of situations is always hard and there are generally hurts feelings. Hopefully not for long. Big hugs |