Wow! I feel so sorry for your niece. Let's face it, you are raising her more than her own parents. How sad is that? The poor thing. I agree, they are taking advantage of you. I hope you don't let your resentment of them affect your niece, I don't think you would but it must be very frustrating. I don't think you are doing them any favors by watching her extra as the relationship they have with her will only continue to suffer. Maybe if they are forced to spend more time with her, they will enjoy it more and look forward to it. I only work part time and if I stay home for any reason, even if I'm sick or have had surgery, my kids stay home with me. I couldn't imagine it any other way. I don't need time away from my kids, they are my whole life and I look forward to seeing them whenever I'm away from them. And it's the same with my husband. If he get's the day off and they are normally scheduled to go to the babysitter he keeps them home with him anyway.
I just find that sad for your niece..... |